“You speak English well” and other things…

I saw the title of this video by ybg and immediately it resonated with me. Immediately. I did not need to watch the video to know what it was that Tonie was going to talk about. I was also reminded of a post that I read by Renni Eddo-Lodge: “Please don’t describe my work as eloquent” and in that instant, I decided that […]

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NO.

Learning when to say no is such a vital and important skill in life. I know this because I am constantly surrounded by people that cannot say no and suffer dearly for it. I think it’s very simple: when you don’t want something, when you don’t agree with it, when you don’t like the situation, say […]

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Small Talk

I hate small talk. I hate beating around the bush. I hate dilly dallying. I hate this idea of being polite unnecessarily. Let’s cut to the chase, get to the point, hit the nail on the head, do whatever is required for you to do in order for you to execute your goal and not […]

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