“You speak English well” and other things…

I saw the title of this video by ybg and immediately it resonated with me. Immediately. I did not need to watch the video to know what it was that Tonie was going to talk about. I was also reminded of a post that I read by Renni Eddo-Lodge: “Please don’t describe my work as eloquent” and in that instant, I decided that […]

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NO.

Learning when to say no is such a vital and important skill in life. I know this because I am constantly surrounded by people that cannot say no and suffer dearly for it. I think it’s very simple: when you don’t want something, when you don’t agree with it, when you don’t like the situation, say […]

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